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I realized the only time I wanted more of a commitment from a guy was when he showed signs of flakiness or emotional unavailability.In other words, I used to dismiss this as “pesky human nature,” until I realized it was because I am also the one who is emotionally unavailable.If someone isn't ready to let you in, it's not happening. I have pushed someone away who I truly had strong feelings for; I have also had the same done to me. This is not always the case, but in my experience, when you have sex with someone too quickly, all logic and judgment goes out the window.You both get caught up in the excitement and the endorphins, and all of a sudden, you think you know someone because you've been "f*cking and texting" for three weeks straight. You just think you know the idea you've created of this person. And, it may make you think you have “so much in common,” or that you have a good sense of who this person is.Why does he say he wants to hang out, but instead of making plans, just likes my Facebook statuses?Why does he talk to me every day for a week and then go MIA?When things move too quickly, it's like getting into a car and stepping on the accelerator.All of a sudden, both of you are like, whoa, this is clearly not a sustainable speed.
It is not your failure if you don't change this person.Don't waste your time ruminating over what you did wrong or what you can do to get a person to act as you want him or her to act. All you can control is the amount of bullsh*t you accept in your life and how you react to it.