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If you’re going to marry a foreigner, marry a white man.” These were the words that fell from my friend’s mother’s mouth when her daughter told her she was dating a Nigerian man because she was tired of Congolese men. ”, said my friend in response, defiantly challenging her mother, to my dismay (anybody knows better than to challenge an African mother! White people “White people don’t have much culture; it’s easy to adapt either way. Was it really for our own good to find our life partners within our own culture? Love blinds common sense.” “No Nigerian, Ghanaian or Jamaican man is welcome in my house. Why is it better for me to be with a white man than it is to be with a Nigerian? How many marriages do you know of people from two different African countries that have lasted till old age? I pondered those phrases: “It’s for your own good” and “stick to your own”.Needless to say my pal dismissed her vibe with the swiftness of a Moi one o’clock bulletin.With these tois your conversation is pretty much assured to revolve around music and celebrities. Woe unto you if she starts talking about some local ‘celeb’ whom you have never heard of.This chick says she supports Amos Kimunya because he has done a good job with Football in Kenya.In shock, one of us asked her who she thought Amos Kimunya was.
Am I saying that those who date outside of their culture are not in tune with their own?Ranked 562,889,580,219 best blog on the Web by Google (behind ‘Mark Philips: Toe Nail Clipping Chronicles’) this blog is required reading for any person with far too much time and bandwidth.As one uncle put it to me [I’m Congolese], “If you married a Nigerian, how would you cope if he wanted to retire in Nigeria? Could we really say that relationships would be easier if we were with someone of the same origin? I’m not talking about someone who was a few years behind your mum in High School and remembers how your mum used to bully her. Unless of course she is 40 but looks 25, but we shall cover .
By the time you come around she has already experienced unbelievable heartache at the hands of real jerks.
Whatever the case wherever she stays is likely not to be anywhere near as free and comfortable as your Bachelor Pad.